The Importance of Being True Yourself
Being true yourself all the time is the key to fulfill your life. This is because it will make you happy and alive every single day if you have courage to show your true color to the world. On the contrary, if you always pretend to be someone else and if you always try to be like everyone else because of regarding the society’s eyes, you will be unhappy for the rest of your life and your life will be doomed eventually – it is inevitable.
You were born to be different, so if you force yourself to be the same as everyone else, it causes depression, disappointment, neurosis, psychosis, and paranoia. This is because it is a distortion of reality and human nature – it goes against God’s laws, for in all the world’s woods and forests, He did not create a single leaf the same as another. However, most people nowadays pretend to be everyone else to follow crowds and go against a human nature because they lack the courage to be different. And that is why they are unhappy and unsatisfied with their lives. They have voluntarily lost enthusiasm for their lives.
I wrote the duology (Liberation: Seeking the Meaning of Life and Mexican Rhapsody: Having a Second Chance) , which describes how I have determined to be true myself and show my true color to the world all the time, and how being true myself all the time makes my life interested, gives me energy to fulfill my life, and fortifies me to pursue my dream of being a writer, come hell or high water.
In short, if you want to fulfill your life and feel happy and alive every single day, you cannot go against God’s law to pretend to be the same as everyone else. You must have the courage to be different and start being true yourself all the time to fulfill your life.
How to Fulfill Your Life
In order to fulfill your life, you must follow your dream and walk on your own unique destiny; otherwise, your life will be disappointed, unsatisfied, and unfulfilled. You cannot fulfill your life by doing what you dislike for getting a monthly salary to go on living. And above all, you cannot fulfill your life by pretending to be everyone else so that you can fit in the society. This is because you were born to be different with your own unique ability and character. You need to shine your unique ability to the world that is your sole responsibility for your life.
You must have the courage to be different, for being true yourself is the essential tool to turn your dream into a reality and fulfill your life. Unfortunately, most people nowadays don’t have the courage to bring their true colors to light and they make a herd to march on the wrong direction: unfulfilled life. And the sad part is that if they see you that you have the courage to be true yourself and walk on your unique destiny with undying enthusiasm, they will dissuade you to come back to the reality since they cannot allow you to enjoy your life to fulfill your life and dream, whereas they are leading monotonous lives with a dead-end job. However, paradoxically, they don’t have the courage to be different, they can’t defend their own unique opinions by themselves, they always need other’s concordance to act, and they are as weak as a sad autumn leaf when they are alone, as soon as they herd an alliance, they will be the strongest force under the sun.
As a matter of fact, I have written a new book (Dance to Dreams: Making the Right Choice, which is scheduled to be published around the July) depicts the importance of chasing after your dream to fulfill your life. Dance to Dreams is a beautiful read for anybody who is struggling to chase a dream, or for anyone afraid to step of the crowd and dare to live fearlessly. It is a deeply moving book that offers readers of all backgrounds a refreshing glimpse of the life-changing possibilities that are within our reach.
At any rate, stop thinking what other people think of you because this is your life; this is not their lives. You have a responsibility for fulfilling your life, so start being true yourself all the time and chase after your dream with a firm determination. And then, you will see that you have an infinite possibility in your life.
Have Faith in Yourself and Enjoy Being Who You Truly Are
You must believe in yourself if you wish to fulfill your life and make your dream come true. In fact, believing in yourself even if nobody believes in you is the most important thing to fulfill your life. In addition, having a little faith in yourself will embolden you to follow your dream, no matter what. Without believing in yourself, you will go nowhere and be easily lost and discouraged. The worst part is that you will give up your dream easily. As a matter of fact, you will give up when you encounter just a few obstacles. Without a little faith in yourself, you cannot have the courage to be different, which means that you cannot fulfill your life and make your dream come true without believing in yourself.
Fulfilling your life and turning your dream into a reality is a long journey. Hence, you will be bound to face countless obstacles and disheartened circumstances, which you cannot simply avoid. However, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed in yourself, you will be bulletproofed from hardships, negative thoughts, and pessimistic opinions. Just believe in yourself wholly and faithfully do what you must do each day to fulfill your life and improve yourselves to turn your dream into a reality, then God will take care of the rest, which I can guarantee you.
Life is a short journey and only one-time offer voyage. You cannot do your life over even if you desperately desire to start your life all over again on your dying bed. It will be too late. You have a right to be different and show your true color to the world to enjoy your life. You had better stop thinking what other people will think of you and what they will gossip about when you start becoming true yourself and walking on your unique destiny. This is your life – you have a duty to fulfill your life. Therefore, you had better believe in yourself and have faith in your power to have the courage to be different. And most importantly, you must start becoming who you truly are all the time and pursue your dream relentlessly to fulfill the journey of your life. Just enjoy the process of becoming who you truly are and fulfilling your life – that will make all the difference.